Yes, there is such a thing that comes with having a gift.
There used to be a time where I didn’t know boundaries and tact needed to be used in my readings. I also used to think that just because I received the information didn’t mean I was supposed to repeat it or share it to the person the information was about. I never questioned it, I figured oh since it’s coming through, I need to share it. I didn’t have much discernment and I hurt people close to me along the way (*palm to face I’m sorry to everyone I hurt, please let me know how I can make it up to you.) I didn’t think of the consequences when confirming certain suspicions for example a cheating or lying husband / wife / boyfriend/ boss etc. Now I’m not referring to karma here. I’m not responsible for the actions people have taken prior to me coming in to confirm what my sitter innately already knows.
FYI – Sitter is my client or person I’m reading for.
I’m talking about the mental health or the next actions of my sitter after I have delivered certain information.
From this point forward, I am speaking for myself and my experiences and how and why I am writing this blog today.
I work differently from other psychics. Not only do I receive my information from source intuitively, but I also counsel and provide therapy yet these titles I received without the degree or student debts. This doesn’t mean I didn’t go to school; this means I took different routes to get my certificates and have practiced my ass off to deliver the best possible sessions. As I have grown in my practice, I have learned a lot from my clientele and humanity these last two years. Thus, the reason I’ve had to adjust the way my readings play out.
There have been many times where I have been provided with information where I am NOT allowed to interfere and am told ‘keep this to yourself’. Why? You may be asking. Short answer – because we come to this school called Earth to learn lessons and FEEL deeply in this human body and experience many levels of emotions to evolve us and remember who we truly are.
For those of you who have sat with me know I can shift energy, when I catch patterns or see something that can be shifted for a better more pleasant outcome and ask for your permission before doing so. Most of the time I’ve done so as I have been granted this gift of shifting realities so why not always use it right?
Well… In some recent DMT/Shroom trips I have been shown how I have interfered in people’s outcomes and how I have prolonged lessons in their lives also prolonging them in my own.
I’ll give some examples below:
I had a client who wasn’t ready to date (client disclosed this info) but I saw someone coming into her life that was going to absolutely change it for the better. She was curious and asked where she may meet such a person. Source let me know via the cards and I went ahead and disclosed the information (at work). The fears that came up in my sitter’s life after our reading cause her to quit the job she was currently at and let’s just say a bunch of fun things showed up after that decision was made. Now, in this case I wasn’t told not to share the information; however, source had indicated she had to do some internal healing before talking about relationships. It’s not that I completely ignored the information, but I didn’t realize what kind of consequence supplying that sort of information would have on her evolution.
So, the way I deliver information is still very no nonsense and to the point; however, the delivery may differ. Example: I may see the death of a child, a parent or a friend, and what I’m allowed to say is make sure you’re checking on them and spending time with them. In case something was to happen you won’t have any regrets VS hey your person is going to die, and you don’t have much more time with them. There are circumstances where I have been allowed to disclose deaths. Regardless of the delivery I consider if there maybe a consequence. I do not play God, but I know I have an obligation to provide information even if it uncomfortable as long as it does not hinder anyone’s evolution.
It’s like the 🦋 butterfly effect, except instead of having grand scale consequences it delays the growth and evolution of my sitters’ process in life and I may pay heavily for that delay as there is a major responsibility placed on me with this gift.
Another example will be theft of property as the sooner responsibility for personal value is learned it won’t have to happen further down the line. If I’m told don’t warn them, even though I see it, it will happen again later, possibly even multiple times. So, I’ve become much more aware of the information and how it effects my sitters life.
At times, my clients will be in a very valid, true emotional relationship that will eventually end because the person is meant to hurt them so they can evolve, get passionate and level up so that they may evolve to the next version of themselves. I’m talking about heartache here. That sobbing, I can’t believe it type of heartache.
Many times, my clients will show up and not be 100% honest and or only project their current happiness and bring up my previous predictions to confirm the person they are currently seeing or the job, or the investment IS that NOUN I was referring too in a previous session. Leaving out important details and that’s ok, but I have some news for you. Your personal energy changes every 30 to 90 days depending on the active choices you are making. So, the reading I gave you 90 days ago may have shifted because you chose to cuss your boss out, move forward with a married man, cheat on a test, etc. I’m sure this is starting to make sense.
Yes, I can see if he’s married, and you’ve chosen not to disclose it. Yes, I can see if you’re the third party or if you’re the crazy one who slashed his tires. Yes, I can see the miscarriages and the failed attempts at pregnancies or if his current wife is pregnant. And regardless of all of those things YOU choose NOT to tell me, I see them and don’t repeat them because I am not here to judge you, I am here to guide you based on the questions you ask. I’m here to assist you on the journey you are currently on. I am here to turn you back to self so that you don’t need to keep coming to me for the answer you already know. What I’m NOT here to do is rob you from any lesson you are fated to learn. Fate means you can’t get out of it. Means something you can’t control.
Examples: A heart ache so deep you can finally write a book and launch yourself as an author. A loss and grief so grave that you finally find your life purpose dedicating yourself to grief counseling. Maybe it’s an investment gone south that finally makes you stop the get rich quick schemes? Does that make sense? So ahead of time I ask that you come as you are as it helps everyone involved. Take responsibility for wherever you are in your journey and be honest. Don’t feed us information, but don’t think that because we don’t mention it we aren’t seeing it.
This is a word to my other psychics, counselors, and hypnotherapist – please be mindful of the way you deliver information. As we can also stunt a person’s growth and keep them stuck in guilt, shame or fear for disclosing any trauma from things they have locked away. Be mindful of the sitter’s personal awareness and ability to regulate emotions. We can’t just bring up their Daddy issues if that’s not what they came to see us for. Open books and general reads are a playground for all these things so please please please use discernment.
With all this said I hope you all take responsibility for your beautiful lives and create consciously.
Love, Aryana
Happy 2.22.22